How is that our governments are preaching Democracy yet our own attitudes are dictatorial? Trying to be control freaks so others wont take advantage of our daily lives. From corporations to individuals we are all trying so hard meaninglessly. Yet we all know from our own experiences, harsh ones and not so harsh ones, that now a days the moment we close our eyes even for one single thing we get screwed over.
Yes that makes us dictators. Protecting ourselves from other peoples fire.
Customer Service issues
Political employee issues
Car traffic issues
Dealing with things that one has to rely upon others is becoming a tradition.
You wait for everyone, doctors, mechanics, grocery, telephone
He said Pink Floyd’s “The Wall” was my favorite To build the walls around me The air I breathed surrounds me But I felt safest Lonely and the only way to feel protected
‘Cos every time Wearing my wounds over my clothes Only got me exposed For others to violate me And I couldn’t help but let them
At the end of this blog I have a question to ask all of you.
As a life coach. I came from a challenging soul’s struggles meeting tonight. He is classified as clinically depressed. I heard him carefully. I can’t mention names or actual events to keep the identity and events private. Needless to say, he thinks he is broken. He is not fixable. Actually believing he needs to be fixed.
My own belief and experience (and it can be absolutely wrong belief, but I chose to believe it anyways) has taught me that unknown behaviors and complex lifestyles of people are named by certain professionals dangerous or broken or diseased. When in fact the alignment only requires certain special kind of attention in most of those people.
Mostly, it is about how willingly one is ready and able to communicate with oneself effortlessly. How one person is willing to be easy on oneself by accepting and being proud of oneself. How one can recognize himself or herself without seeking others approvals.
The thoughts I suggested to this person are and I ask you all the same. Answer each question as best as you can. I expect his answers tomorrow at the next session
Can he be proud of the wounds irrespective of who has given those wounds to him?
Can he expect to have relationships with others when he doesn’t even have relationship with himself?
Define what he means by communication?
Toodles all…have a blessed day/night with your self.